For
Extroverts: 12 Ways to Be a Better Parent to Your Introverted Kid
You’re
confused by your kid. She doesn’t act the way you did when you were growing up.
She’s hesitant and reserved. Instead of diving in to play, she’d rather stand
back and watch the other kids. She talks to you in fits and starts—sometimes
she rambles on, telling you stories, but other times, she’s silent, and you
can’t figure out what’s going on in her head. She spends a lot of time alone in
her bedroom. Her teacher says he wishes she’d participate more in class. Her
social life is limited to two people. Even weirder, she seems totally okay
with that.
Congratulations:
you’ve got an introvert.
It’s not
unusual for extroverted parents to worry about their introverted children and
even wonder if their behavior is mentally and emotionally healthy. Of course, children
can suffer from anxiety and depression, just as adults can.
How to care for your
introverted child
Know that there is nothing unusual or shameful
about being an introvert
Understand that your child’s temperament is due
to biology
Introduce your child to new people and
situations slowly
Remind your child that she can take breaks from
socializing if she feels overwhelmed or tired
Point out when she ends up enjoying something
she was initially afraid of
Help your child cultivate her passions
Talk to your child’s teachers about her
introversion
Teach your child to stand up for herself
Make sure your child feels “heard”
Don’t take it personally when your child needs
time alone
Be aware that your child might not ask for help
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