Friday, December 7, 2018

For Extroverts: 12 Ways to Be a Better Parent to Your Introverted Kid



For Extroverts: 12 Ways to Be a Better Parent to Your Introverted Kid

You’re confused by your kid. She doesn’t act the way you did when you were growing up. She’s hesitant and reserved. Instead of diving in to play, she’d rather stand back and watch the other kids. She talks to you in fits and starts—sometimes she rambles on, telling you stories, but other times, she’s silent, and you can’t figure out what’s going on in her head. She spends a lot of time alone in her bedroom. Her teacher says he wishes she’d participate more in class. Her social life is limited to two people. Even weirder, she seems totally okay with that.

Congratulations: you’ve got an introvert.

It’s not unusual for extroverted parents to worry about their introverted children and even wonder if their behavior is mentally and emotionally healthy. Of course, children can suffer from anxiety and depression, just as adults can.
How to care for your introverted child

  Know that there is nothing unusual or shameful about being an introvert
        Understand that your child’s temperament is due to biology
        Introduce your child to new people and situations slowly
        Remind your child that she can take breaks from socializing if she feels overwhelmed or tired
       Point out when she ends up enjoying something she was initially afraid of
       Help your child cultivate her passions
      Talk to your child’s teachers about her introversion
      Teach your child to stand up for herself
           Make sure your child feels “heard”
       Don’t take it personally when your child needs time alone
        Be aware that your child might not ask for help


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